Aloof

 This person could be acting aloof and distant but let me help

you by taking off their facade

They want to communicate with you, yes they genuinely do. They are hoping to reconnect as they want to apologise for what they did to you and being so selfish. They always knew that they had an intense connection with you but they just didn't want to commit for long terms .They were too distracted in making other choices their priority which forced you to end this relationship or walk away .Lots of lies came to surface which made things worse .The whole situation got overwhelming for both of you and eventually you had to let it go. Yes the person is stubborn and has a streak of ego which surely makes them not come out with apology but they deep down have self realisation in order to have you they need to apologise to you.They know their lies are out and as self

defence they acted indifferent and walked away. So yes they want to communicate with you now but at the same time they are defensive as they know you would ask for answers for all the lies that came to surface .They never expected you to walk away but once you did it kind of shocked them.

They thought you would forgive them or let it pass as you always did. They are surely missing you and there is strong sense of repent Don't go by their insta pics / online life as it is just not same as their subconscious feelings...They are in reget but their false ego is still stopping them to come towards you and say sorry.. You stand your ground as they need to realise how badly they have hurt you and you deserve an apology..that's bare minimum.

Let them fight their false ego & own their sh** and come towards you with honesty